Relationship Support

Intimate relationships are a fundamental part of life, shaping our well-being, security, and satisfaction. However, external stressors—such as global events—can strain relationships like never before, making effective communication, emotional support, and resilience more important than ever.

FEAP offers confidential consultations for individuals and couples seeking guidance on relationship concerns, as well as educational seminars on key topics. Our services help clarify needs, improve communication, and provide referrals to additional resources if desired.

Relationships naturally evolve, and challenges—whether expected or sudden—can impact daily life and work. Whether facing conflict, separation, or the complexities of long-term commitment, FEAP is here to support employees at every stage of their relationships, fostering healthier connections and overall well-being.

Domestic violence is a pattern of coercive behavior—through actions or threats—used to gain power and control over a current or former spouse, family member, intimate partner, or co-parent. It affects individuals across all relationships, backgrounds, and identities.

Abuse can take many forms, including physical or sexual violence, emotional or psychological intimidation, verbal abuse, stalking, economic control, harassment, and physical threats or harm.

FEAP consultants are trained to understand the complexities of domestic violence and can connect individuals with appropriate resources. If you or someone you know needs support, please call 434.243.2643. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship

Does your partner:

• Verbally insult, demean, or threaten you?
• Isolate you from friends, family, or support systems?
• Monitor your schedule, follow, or harass you?
• Restrict your mobility or control your finances?
• Explode in rage and assault you physically or sexually?
• Dismiss your words, abilities, ideas, or actions?
• Choke, punch, slap, kick, or otherwise harm you?
• Apologize after each incident and promise to stop?

If you are experiencing any of these signs, please contact FEAP for support. Employees, family members, supervisors, managers, and faculty can also reach out for guidance on domestic violence concerns.

The end of a relationship—whether through divorce, separation, or breakup—can be an emotionally challenging experience, impacting every aspect of life. Feelings of grief, anxiety, sadness, and uncertainty are common, and adjusting to this transition can be overwhelming.

FEAP offers confidential mental health support to help individuals navigate the emotional toll of relationship changes. Our trained counselors provide short-term counseling, guidance, and referrals to help you process emotions, manage stress, and develop coping strategies. Whether you’re struggling with co-parenting, legal and financial stress, or rebuilding your sense of self, FEAP can help.

If you’re facing the challenges of a breakup, separation, or divorce, you don’t have to go through it alone. Contact FEAP at 434.243.2643 to connect with support and resources tailored to your needs.

Raising a child is one of life’s most rewarding experiences, but it also comes with challenges. Every caregiver benefits from understanding, guidance, and support as they navigate the ever-changing journey of parenting. FEAP provides confidential, in-person consultations for parents and step-parents looking to grow in their roles. Upon request, we also offer educational seminars on parenting topics specific to children and teens. Our services are designed to offer information, tools, and support to help parents manage the daily complexities of raising children.

Does FEAP See Children?

FEAP does not provide direct counseling to children. However, we offer support and guidance to parents regarding their child’s emotional or behavioral health and can connect caregivers with appropriate community resources.

• Older Adolescents (16+): On a case-by-case basis, FEAP may provide brief therapeutic support if deemed beneficial in consultation with the parent(s). Confidentiality guidelines will be discussed with both the adolescent and their parents.
• Adult Children (18+): FEAP services are available to employees' adult children. As legally independent individuals, their confidentiality is protected, and parental involvement is at their discretion. A Release of Information is required for parents to receive updates unless mandated by law.

Positive Discipline

We all want our children to thrive, and discipline plays a key role in shaping their development. While many resources offer parenting advice, each caregiver must make daily decisions about what approach works best for their child.

FEAP offers educational seminars on age-appropriate discipline to help parents clarify their child’s needs, establish effective parenting strategies, and connect with additional resources if needed.

For confidential parenting support or to request a seminar, contact FEAP at 434.243.2643.

In its drive to continually respond to changing needs, FEAP is excited to expand offerings for your eldercare needs.

By engaging outside expertise, FEAP can now connect you with trained professionals who have the knowledge and experience to meet a variety of eldercare concerns through consultation and customized guidance.

Consultations are personalized for the your unique needs. The eldercare consultant will listen to your unique situation and needs and will provide research, information, and solutions tailored to you.

Common concerns eldercare consultants can assist with include, among others:

• Home Health Care Agencies
• Nursing Home & Assisted Living Facilities
• Transportation Services
• Rehabilitation
• Hospices
• Home Medical Equipment
• Independent & Retirement Communities

Employees of organizations FEAP supports and their adult family members are eligible for these services upon referral from FEAP.

To get started, contact FEAP. We can provide a referral immediately (without an initial FEAP appointment) or by electing to schedule an appointment with FEAP first.